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    Modern Dating Rules

    Modern dating is screwed up, it’s a game. A twisted game of who can care less, who can show the least possible interest as they maintain a fun, light persona. It’s about mastering the art of staying cool and unaffected while actively being blue-ticked by your love interest. A love interest you can’t possibly tell how you truly feel because it’s literally the number one rule of modern dating   It entails sending passive-aggressively charged messages, deleting present ones and eventually blocking said love interest. But not for long, never for too long. Only up until that high of getting rid of negativity in your life dies down. He is…

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    How To Survive Valentines When Single & Alone

    He comes complete with the subtle moody charm and allure. The kind that draws you in slowly, then all at once. There’s an air of mystery surrounding him, coupled with his magnetic charm, a deep accented voice, and a striking sly smile. You recognize the smile, mainly because it speaks volumes about his years mastering the art of seduction. Yes, he’s a master manipulator. Although, he surprisingly lacks the timeless biker jacket and motorcycle, but make no mistakes. He is an original bad boy, only the Kenyan type.       Weekends together are characterized by blurry nights-I mean booze and more booze. In the middle of the vibrant night lights…

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    First Date Sex : Does It Ruin Chances At A Relationship?

    “If he wants to hit it and quit it he will, hata kama ni kungonja 6 months.” –Flevia, 25   “Of course! I wouldn’t date someone who is Infatuated. I wouldn’t settle for anything serious with her…cause its shallow” –Tosie, 24   “Not really …it depends on a lot of factors. Some people smash on the first night and end up getting married. Some will have sex and lose interest. So different folks, different strokes” –Bolivia, 23     “Quick secret, in the first 5 to 10 minutes of the meeting. Guys would have already categorized what they’d like with a girl. To shag, a friend, a relationship, a friend with…